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hey everyone and welcome back to the lose weight by eating podcast I'm Audrey John's and this week I wanted to talk
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about how to stay on plan when fatigue hits and fatigue has hit me this
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week um if you are up to date on everything going on with me I run two
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podcasts and I got my first Top Chef podcast um contestant to interview this
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week and it was this whole thing with Bravo which is amazing and that I'm definitely experiencing some fatigue and
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so the idea for this this week's um podcast was very organic for me it was
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just something I was struggling with and I find that even with the knowledge that
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I have from time to time I kind of need to spot check I kind of need to go back and say okay what foods are good for
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fatigue and what should I be doing right now and and I thought well if I need it
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all of you might need it and even if you don't need it right now here's a podcast that you can come back and listen to
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when things get out of control in your life so I wanted to talk about different
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types of fatigue I do have some listener questions and I also wanted to let you
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know that I love a theme and I have no shame in that and because of that the
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entire meal plan for next week um for Monday throughout the whole week is all going to be foods that fight fatigue
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so not only do you have the entire podcast to listen to and to hopefully
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gain knowledge from and and maybe you know I hope you're motivated by it and
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inspired by it but then there's also a free meal plan on the lose weight by eating website and you can always find
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it for free you just go to loseweight bye.com and the mail plan is always right there on the front and even if
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you're listening to this months from now you just keep scrolling down and you
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will find this week's planner and it's for the 8th of April is what it will be slated as
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when it no longer says this week's um so it will always be up there for you so
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the first thing I wanted to talk about were different types of fatigue and fatigue can mean different things for
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different people it can just mean I'm exhausted I haven't been sleeping General exhaustion it can be exercise
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fatigue I'm sick of doing this I'm exhausted this is boring now or diet
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fatigue same thing I'm bored with the foods I'm eating and I'm wanting to just kind of go off plan so I wanted to kind
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of try to hit all three of those because all three of those can be a real
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struggle for anyone and everyone at any given time so before we jump into that I
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wanted to quickly note the foods that boost energy so whether you have General
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exhaustion or even just diet fatigue these could be some great items just to work into
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your snacks into your daily meals it will not just boost your energy but it
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will also kind of reinvigorate your your meal plan per week so obviously fresh fruits and
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vegetables are going to be at the very top of the list these will definitely boost your energy um they're full of
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vitamins and minerals they're the best possible snack that you can have so even if you're on a very strict diet or you
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have picky eaters at home at the very least you can work some fresh fruits and vegetables into your snacks right the
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next item at the top of the list to Boost energy would be lean proteins so we're talking chicken tuna
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salmon uh shrimp we're thinking um pork chops can be good in moderation turkey
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ground turkey is a great one so any of these lean proteins are going to be
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really great for boosting your energy but with that said whole grains is also
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on the list and before I did this podcast I I know all of this stuff but I
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it could be imposter syndrome it could just be not practicing what I preach all the time guilty but I did want to go
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online and do a little bit of research and we will get into this a little bit more in the podcast but before you click
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off and you're like no I'm not going to eat whole grains one of the reasons and this was cited on several different
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websites and it had some medical research cited behind it that people are
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eating too much protein and this is causing fatigue so when I say lean
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protein and whole grains we really want a good balance there okay next is water
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and while I say that I'm going to take a sip of my water everybody feel free to take a sip of your water right now
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too zero calories naturally boost your metabolis is M makes you look younger
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fills you up and gives you energy the next item on the list is nuts
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and seeds another great snack if you have a Trader Joe's by you I've been getting I love cashews but if I get a
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whole bag of them I'll eat the whole bag of them it's a real problem but they have these little individual bags it's
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in with all the rest of their nuts right next to the cashews you might kind of have to look a little bit harder but
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it's a big bag of cashews inside of other little bags and I love those because no matter how hot the weather is
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I can throw a couple of those in my purse or in my car it's just a great
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snack and it's packed full of protein and healthy fats so if you do have a Trader Joe's by you go check out their
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nut aisle it is so low cost lots of amazing raw nuts I love their walnuts as
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well they're great on salads but nuts and seeds are going to be really great for you so when we're saying seeds we're
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thinking FL black seeds or sesame seeds chia seeds and we're going to get to
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those as well the next item I just kind of wanted to find some some instead of
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general like fresh fruits and vegetables lean protein whole grains nuts and seeds I wanted to give you some specific items
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because that's what I'm kind of always looking for bananas oatmeal and chia
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seeds where the three top eat this specifically for more energy so what I
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did with the meal plan for this week and you guys will see it is I worked um all
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of those into breakfasts so I did my um banana protein oatmeal and I did my chia
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seed um protein breakfast bowls so if you just want to make it super easy I've
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got all of that out there for you you could add bananas in as a snack their
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perfect little 100 calorie snack I mean there might be like 105 calories but peeling it alone and digesting it will
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burn off those five calories obviously you can slice it up and put it in your breakfast you can put it in your smoothies in the morning bananas are
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great and they're a really great pickme up afternoon snack oatmeal same thing you can just have it for breakfast you
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could add a tablespoon or two to your smoothies you could have granola if you
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don't like the consistency of oatmeal have granola I have several different amazing granola recipes on the website
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that are all natural and do not cost an arm and a leg like like the ones at the grocery store and then same with Chia
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seeds you could work those into your smoothies if you're not a fan of them you could also do a chia seed pudding
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and I did add that to the meal plan so these are the foods that will boost
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your energy so we want to try to work in at least one of those a day could be
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enough to kind of turn things around for you and if you're really worried about
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sugar nuts are going to be for you if you're really worried about calories fruit and vegetables are going to be for
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you adding in healthy foods as a snack is the easiest thing that you can do and
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typically the best thing you can do because more often than not we're not
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snacking as healthy as we're eating for meals so even if you do not want to change your entire diet try to work at
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least one of these items that work for you into your snacks right
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away so I also wanted to find out why is your diet making you
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tired and I wanted to do five reasons because I like like a nice round number
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there but I came up with six so here we go and these were all directly
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found outside of the last one online on research websites that had
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medical backgrounds on them and or reciting actual medical IAL
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documentation number one you're getting too much protein it's becoming a real problem from all of the research I did
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today and this was news to me we are eating too much protein and
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this is making us lethargic so it's all about balance obviously lean protein was on there
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right so people are just this whole keto thing is getting so big and hey if it
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works for you more power to you but it's gotten to the point now where people are
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only eating proteins and not having anything else and these different
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medical researches have found that this is becoming a real problem and people
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are getting lethargic so if you eat mostly protein and you find that you're really tired all the time it could be a
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spot check of how could I you know work in some of these healthier items in so
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you could still have that piece of chicken for dinner that you're having that's packed with protein put it on a
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bed of baby spinach it's amazing and now you're getting some of your fresh vegetables in there okay and it's still
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keto the next item of why your diet might be making you tired is you're
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eating processed foods and or fake sugars and if you are a longtime
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listener here or if you've been on the website or any of the social media Pages for years you already know processed
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foods and fake sugars will do a number of horrible things to your body including causing weight gain and fat
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storage I was not necessarily surprised to find it here on this list of things
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that are slowing down your energy things that are literally just making you exhausted but it wouldn't have been
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something I would have put on the list um to start off with I you know I would have thought well that's kind of a given
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so I'm glad I found it out there in the medical research um the next one again in the medical research not enough raw
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raw fruits and vegetables and I know a lot of people don't like that but think salad or think
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vegetable s sticks with your favorite blue cheese dressing okay and I do have a allnatural blue cheese dressing on the
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website but um you know think that way work it into snacks it's the easiest
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thing to do not enough healthy carbs was a big one as well in all of this medical
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research that people are just completely replacing their entire diet with protein
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and if that makes you feel good then well you're probably not listening to this right you Pro if you don't have
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severe fatigue if you don't want to find a way to to boost your energy you're
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probably listening to a totally different podcast so um but if you're not eating enough healthy carbs You're
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simply just not giving your brain enough fuel and carbs are so important for fuel
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and some healthy carbs would be here we go fruits and vegetables healthy carbs
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great snacks quinoa great carb great in salads
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chia seeds great for boosting your energy
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oatmeal great for boosting your energy do you see where this is all going now for you those of you out there who are
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very against carbs because there is this very negative connotation with carbs right now and and I don't think it will
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last forever but healthy carbs are brain fuel
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and you really do need it however if you're worried about weight gain for
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increasing your carbs here's a way to do it eat your carbs at breakfast when you eat your carbs the
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very first meal of the day or a second you are going to burn them off
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now if you have a huge pasta dinner and then you go to sleep on top of all those carbs yeah that could cause weight
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gain that would cause weight gain for me but if you have your carbs for breakfast or for lunch then you can actually use
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them as fuel so this is a great spot for me to mention again banana is an
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oatmeal make a great banana oatmeal breakfast you've gotten your carbs in
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for the day you're boosting your energy you're giving your brain the fuel that it needs and for those of of you who are
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like no no no I need protein in there as well check out this week's meal plan because I did put on my my banana
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protein oatmeal so I've got your back I'm trying to cover all bases here the
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next reason why your diet might be making you tired is your body is not absorbing
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nutrients and this is something I have found specifically I think I'm probably
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going to have to do a whole podcast on it at some point but I I had a really big Health
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scare a few years ago I'm okay uh but I did have to have an emergency hysterectomy and even though I did keep
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my ovaries where the bulk of the hormones come from my hormones were all
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over the place and I started premenopause and it was it was really hard for me um if you watched me on the
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Rachel Ray show there's probably one episode we're like she really packed on the pounds and I did because after the
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hysterectomy I started my menopause at a very young age
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and what I have found for women who are in premenopause and menopause and postmenopause is that we are not
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absorbing all of the nutrients in our food which is just super messed up like
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come on man it's hard enough that we're going through this but I did find a really great and I'll I'll put it in the
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show notes but I found a really amazing digestion enzyme that actually helps me
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to digest the foods so it's not just making it easier to dig digest the foods that maybe my tummy doesn't completely
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love but it's also helping me absorb the nutrients and I found that when I had one of these before each meal the weight
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came off really quick and now I have one every morning with my breakfast if if I end up having like beans with dinner
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that I might take it so I'm not you know gassy all night or cabbage tends to do that to me as well so it helps with
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these other it items but it's called digest well and I find it on Amazon I'll
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put a link in the show notes but I know that there are plenty of other digestion
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enzymes out there you can find just make sure you're looking for an allnatural one so if you are like me and you are in
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your 40s and up and you're a woman there's a very good chance that you are
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just not absorbing the nutrients in your food which is freaking heartbreaking
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because you're eating the calories you should get the good stuff going in there too right and then my last one is you're
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not eating at the right times now this is one that I added out of all of the other ones those were all had medical
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you know sightings behind them and all of that this is me speaking but you're not eating at the right times so I have
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found more often than not and I am as guilty as anyone else that often we
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either forget breakfast or we forget lunch or we push it back and then we end up having this big huge dinner well no
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wonder why we're so tired we're not giving our bodies fuel we are so hyp sensitive to trying
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to lose weight or maintain weight or look good and I understand that a lot of
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the people listening to this podcast that is a that is a real concern for them I get it but if you're not
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using your food as fuel then why are you
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I mean you're just you're wasting the calories at that point right so I want you to think about your body as a car
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and I know I use this analogy all the time but it is a sexy ass car it is red
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and fast and pretty I mean come on you're a sexy ass car okay and think
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about would you drive that car around on empty all
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day and then fill it up right before you put it in the garage at night well first of all it wouldn't work right that's
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what's happening to your body you're driving around all day without any fuel no wonder why it's not working no wonder
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why you're exhausted no wonder why you're holding on to Fat no wonder why you're lethargic no wonder why you don't
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want to do the things that you know you need to do like get to the gym so you need to use your food as
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actual fuel so have a breakfast have a lunch if you really want to skip a meal skip
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dinner you don't need dinner dinner is amazing because it's
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the time that fames sit together and and talk it's it's great for going out with
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friends obviously we need the calories of dinner but when you think about
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people who do the intermittent fasting which I have tried it didn't work great
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for me and I'm a little hypoglycemic so I got really cranky
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um but even if you want to do that more often than not people will Fast through
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breakfast and then have lunch and they're missing an opportunity there their intermittent fasting would
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be twice as effective if they skipped dinner and by skipping I don't mean not having those calories with intermittent
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fasting you have the same amount of calories that you would typically have in a day but you have it in a shorter amount of time okay so you would have
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your breakfast lunch and dinner calories before say 300 p.m. or 4 p.m. that would
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be the most effective if you love intermittent fasting try this now I know
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it will not be great for your social life so it's it's just a suggestion if
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you are lethargic you could try it out on the days that you are not going out with friends and see how it works for
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you so on to my next Point diet or exercise fatigue what if
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you're sick of your routine so I get like fatigue can be many different
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things I can be sick of my diet and I can be sick of working out or I can just
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be exhausted so now I want to hit on what if you're just sick of your diet and what if you're sick of your
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exercising so I want to give you some ideas here first of all hitting on the
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exercise you could take a workout class or you could work out with a friend taking walks with a friend or hiking
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with a friend is free you could listen to new music or a
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podcast like this one or like my other one called who's reality cooking you could do different things at
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the gym as well if you always run on the treadmill or walk on the treadmill try an
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elliptical or maybe just walk outside it's beautiful weather right now get outside get some vitamin D so try to
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change things up if you find that you're dreading your daily routine of going to
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the gym or your weekly routine of going to the gym find something else that works for you and I'm going to hit on
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this a little bit more but even just getting there and and I'm sorry apparently I'm going to be cursing on
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this episode but just getting there and doing a half-ass job is better than not going right and we'll hit on that a
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little bit more later on in the podcast but what if you're sick of your
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diet what if you're just sick of I'm so sick of having these smoothies every single day or I'm so sick of having
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salads every day at lunch we can work with that that's an easy fix the first
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thing I would recommend doing because I love food is I would recommend going to the farmers market you're walking around
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you're being active you're out in the sun so these are already great for exercise but you're also looking at new
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ingredients and trying to get excited about new ingredients it's also great for the
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social aspect you could revisit your favorite sites for recipes like lose weight by
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eating.com or love of veggies. comom my other website that one's all um
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plant-based and you could also revisit your favorite books
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cookbooks and if you don't have any or you're like yeah that's the problem Audrey go to a library or a bookstore
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and flip through the cookbooks and see if you get inspired especially if you're at the library then you can check it out and
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you can bring it home okay even just looking through the cookbooks I don't know if you have a Barnes & Noble by you
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with a Starbucks inside of it but I do and I love to sit at the little tables because you can bring as many books into
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that little Starbucks area as you want they even have a little hey I'm not interested in this book little area so I
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don't even have to worry about putting them back and I'll just flip through the cookbooks and get inspired I don't necessarily need the recipe in front of
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me because then I could go back to lose weight by eating or any of the other websites that I frequent and say okay
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I'm going to look up you know a recipe for chicken salad with Cranberries or whatever it was that was
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inspiring in that book bring a notepad or even buy the book if you can afford
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it I do have a rule at the library or at a bookstore if I flip through a cookbook
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it has to have at least three recipes I'm really excited about to check it out for free at the library or five recipes
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I'm really excited about trying if I'm going to purchase it so those could be some good parameters if
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you're able to purchase the book or if you have the library with lots of cookbooks or try this week's meal plan
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it's fresh it's new I'll go over it really quickly with all of you it's got
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the low calorie banana nut protein oatmeal and the Chia seed bowls those are both protein packed for breakfasts
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and I alternate them same with lunches I alternate this helps keep cost low and
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you can meal prep um I'm doing the chicken quinoa meal prep bowls really
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energy packed and the low calorie meal prep tofu bowls which you can absolutely
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swap out for chicken if you don't like tofu alternating those throughout the week then for dinner I'm doing my pesto
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pea soup if you have not tried it do not knock it I am completely obsessed with it I have it at least three times a week
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it is the best soup I've ever had it's absolutely delicious and super low in calories so much nutrition in there too
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then the low calorie taco salad because we're trying to get lots of veggies in at dinner low calorie strawberry chicken
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salad so that one's got blue cheese but you could swap it out for feta low calorie Greek chicken salad so it's just
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a really beautiful Greek salad with a little bit of quinoa and some chicken and then my chicken salad with
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cranberries I had noted you can either have that in a sandwich this would be for Friday night so I kind of like the
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idea of having in a sandwich or in a bun and you can hollow out the bun on the inside or just put it on a nice bed of
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greens or a baby spinach next while I was filling it out I had my Facebook live going and I did
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have a request for a casserole so I did my my lasagna low calor protein packed
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tons of veggies so yummy and it makes for the best leftovers you've ever had
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which we will get to and then finally my low calorie high protein lemon scallop
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pasta and before you say hey Audrey you said not to sleep on a big bowl of pasta I do use protein pasta in this you can
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have a really really big portion of it and it's all made with
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chickpeas so next I wanted to go over some handy supplements if that's your
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your thing if not I totally get it I really do recommend the digest well you
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can get it off of Amazon it's a little bit on the pricey side but if you only have it during one meal a day maybe at
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breakfast when you have the bulk of your energy boosting foods that could be very helpful a vitam vitamin B complex we all
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know about maybe not all of us but the bulk of us know about vitamin B12 and that is a great vitamin to Boost energy
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don't take it too late in the afternoon same with the vitamin B complex but I like the vitamin B complex because
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you're getting other versions of the Vitamin B and it's actually something surprisingly enough that my therapist
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had recommended when I was having a really low week and I was really depressed she said try this and it
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helped so not only did it give you energy it also boosts weight loss and your metabolism
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and it's just so good for your mental health so vitamin B complex is a really
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great one it's probably one of the lower priced supplements that you can find and I will add show notes at the bottom with
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links to all of these so if you want to you know help me out you know buy from
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those links because I will get a small commission ginsing is another really great one it's especially great for
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women for energy and it's great for brain energy so if you find that you're just your exhaustion is coming from all
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of this work that you're doing it's not necessarily because you ran three miles
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it's because your mentally exhausted ginsing is a really great one and just as a cup of green tea in the afternoon
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is good for for you for boosting energy if you don't like green tea you could
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take a green tea supplement and that's a great one as well it's basically just ground up green tea and you take it in
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pill form so these are all great handy supplements that you can that you can use you do not have to use them but I
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know some of us do like our supplements next I wanted to jump over
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to tips see I wrote five tips to Boost energy today but I went over as well so
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here are some tips to Boost energy right now you can exercise
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more you can try meditation or yoga to to reduce
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stress how often do we not realize that stress is actually a really big part of
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why we're so exhausted it's kind of like if you've got your computer open and
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you're running a ton of different programs behind everything and you've forgotten about it and you're like why is this thing running so slow well honey
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that's what stress is for your body right so we can work on stress by
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meditating by doing yoga by taking a walk outside um other things that you can do
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to reduce stress is singing along with your favorite song you can listen to binural music with your earbuds in you
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can find it for free on YouTube just type in binaural and it will come up with all this different music that you
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can just put in to your ear you know put your earbuds in your ears and just listen to it while you work or while you
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work out or while you take a walk I have a friend who actually sleeps with her earbuds in I have no idea how she does it but she listens to it while she
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sleeps you can take a week off the booze yep alcohol is going to make you tired so
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what I recommend if you love to go out with your friends and have a glass of wine once a week try to limit your
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alcohol to just one day a week it's a great way just to start it because then you're not saying no I can't have that
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going back to my chocolate diet talk with all of you once you say I can't have it you want it more right so maybe
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try moving all of your alcohol to just one day a week and like okay Saturday nights I
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always go out with the girls that's the only day I'm going to drink and drink responsibly obviously but see how you
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feel throughout the week you may find that you have more energy and get more sleep it's kind of a
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duh right but more sleep is obviously going to help with your exhaustion and
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you can prioritize your sleep try to go to bed 30 minutes earlier that's a really easy one put your phone away an
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hour before you go to bed I I can't do that if you are on Facebook you know I'm responding to you up until the moment
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that I fall asleep but that is a great way as as well obviously I do not practice what I'm preaching on this one
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the next one is boost your water andtake all right everybody take another sip of your water I promise I'm only going to
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do this to you twice this time so good for you boost your energy
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fills you up boost your metabolism makes you look younger and prettier and more
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hydrated makes your joints feel better you're more you know more Supple to
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quote Lily Tomlin um water is your best friend on so many different levels I
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love soda water I have a soda stream and I fill up my soda stream on a daily basis and I'm constantly drinking water
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so that's a great way to do it as well next after walk after meal
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walks wow I totally turned that around dyslexia hidden in my notes here but
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after you have a meal take a walk now that might not work for breakfast but it might work for lunch if you end up
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having lunch with all your work friends you guys could all take a walk after work or after lunch same with dinner you
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could take a quick brisk walk after lunch or after dinner see the fatigue is
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hitting but taking a walk after you have your meal is great for digestion and it
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will also boost your energy and then finally prioritize your
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meals for energy so you're going to have more calories at breakfast and lunch and
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less at dinner I'm going say that again more calories at breakfast and lunch and
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less at dinner we're looking at food as fuel especially if you're
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exhausted and I know what you're thinking well that's just my body no your brain Burns so many
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calories you need to feed your brain so don't go to work on a an empty
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stomach don't do that to yourself anymore and as I'm saying that I'm almost kind of I'm like any anybody
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watching on YouTube they're like you're not looking at the camera now I'm looking at myself in the screen and I'm saying eat your breakfast because I am
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guilty of that as well okay so prioritize your meals and look at them
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as this is the fuel that's going to help me stay energized throughout the day
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stop saying these are calories and they're going to make me fat cuz they're not it's
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Fuel and by the way when you eat breakfast you're less likely to overeat
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at lunch and when you eat lunch you're less likely to overeat at dinner so there are many different ways
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that prioritizing your meals for energy can help your body not just in
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energy your brain is going to work better you're you're going to have more energy to work out you're going to have
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more energy to be with your kids at night you're going to have more energy to be with your your significant other
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but also you're going to be boosting metabolism you're going to be giving
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your body what it needs so that it can be as healthy as possible so with all of that said I
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wanted to also talk about how to stay on plan when you are just wiped out and
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again coming back to I'm really exhausted personally my brain is just
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exhaust exhausted and I I came to the idea to have this
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podcast because I needed it and because I am wiped out and I put on my workout
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clo yesterday and did everything but workout in them I was just too tired and I
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realized that's a lot of us right now and we can do better by ourselves especially when exercising gives us
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energy right so the first thing you can do is make a plan so if you're always
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too tired to cook say after soccer night or on Friday nights when you come home from work and you're done with your week
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you can plan for it if you know Tuesday nights are going to be rough because the
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kids have got soccer Wednesday nights are going to be hard because you've got you know church night or Friday nights
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are going to be hard because you've got to put this big huge project together every Friday and put it on your boss's
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desk before you can leave if you know you're going to be exhausted on a Friday or on a Tuesday on a Wednesday you can
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plan for it right let's plan for it you can meal prep a dinner or you can make
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doubles of dinner tonight and save them up for that night you can also do a slow cooker meal
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so you can do one of those dump and walk away slow cooker meals I've got them on the website I have them in the cookbooks
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you can find them all over the place online make a slow cooker meal so that when you come home you're not tempted by
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unhealthy food cuz you could smell your dinner and it's going to be good and you've already done all the work for
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it you can also have one to two places that you can get a reasonably priced
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dinner that won't ruin your diet here in our house we do have a couple of
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different places that we will go that are low cost enough for our budget for those nights that nobody wants to
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cook so I would and I know you probably didn't see this one coming yeah go out
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to dinner but don't go through a drive-thru do your research ahead of time and say these are my healthy
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options I can go to a Chipotle for a salad that's a great one and they're all
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organic they're not necessarily inexpensive but that's a great one right you can find these places that have
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something delicious that you'll actually want that's low calor so maybe look into
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some of your favorite places go online to your favorite restaurants look at their menu online even pick up the phone
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and call them and ask them what's the healthiest thing on your menu and then that is your go-to if I'm really hungry
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and I don't want to cook then I'm going to go and get that Chinese chicken salad with grilled chicken at my favorite
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place everybody's got one right so find those meals that you can have for the
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nights that you just don't want to cook and they're already there and they're already in your head and you're like you know know what if I'm not feeling it
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when we're on our way home from soccer we're going to go to Chipotle and the kids can you know get their burritos or
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they can get their tacos but I'm going to get the salad okay so these are
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all I I want to set you up for success and I can't imagine that you assumed I
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was going to say just go out to dinner so there you go um the next thing to do
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would be to prioritize your plan so if working out or eating health
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or meal prepping is part of your goals they need to be your
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priority and that could mean you work out for thing in the morning that could be you meal prep on
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Sundays or on Mondays or you do like me and you meal prep as you go I don't have
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time to do a big meal prepping Sunday but what I do is I will make a really
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big lunch on Sunday or on Monday because I work from home and then will package
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up the leftovers as meal prep same with dinners for instance I had mentioned the lasagna from this week's meal plan is
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really amazing and it makes really great leftovers I slice it and serve it and
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then I always have at least four or five more servings left CU it's a big tray I
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put them into individual meal prep containers and I put them in the freezer and it is the best go-to meal when you
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don't want to cook like oh yeah I've got lasagna in the freezer we actually fight over it
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here so you can make more food on the
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nights that you do have the energy to cook and put it aside for the nights you
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won't have energy to cook and if it freezes well package it up and put it in the freezer you can always defrost it
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two days later you can always defrost it a month later but this is a great way
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prioritize your plan if you're trying to eat healthy then making your plan on a
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weekend or on a day that you are not mentally exhausted is ideal going grocery shopping on a day that you are
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not mentally exhausted is ideal do you see what I'm saying you want to prioritize you want to do the work when
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you're not already exhausted because especially for parents and and I know myself as a woman
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I will put myself last to make sure everybody else gets what they need so put this first cuz if mama ain't
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happy nobody's happy and make sure that you are prioritizing
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you finally just start like with my workout clothes
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yesterday Tuesday night was similar I put on my workout clothes I went to the gym I like to walk on the treadmill at a
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really high incline I feel like it just really gets my heart rate going and it's easy and I can listen to a podcast and
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it's fun and then I do some weights and Tuesday night I went and instead of doing my 30 minutes on the treadmill I
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did 17 and I was like screw it I don't want to be here I'm exhausted I'm going home and that's okay because I did
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something something is better than nothing so just do it just go on that
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walk if you turn around after five minutes a five minute walk or a 10 minute walk is still better than no walk
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I would rather you and here I go again with the curse word I'd rather you do a half-ass job than do nothing so just try
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just do it you can always cut yourself short and say that was all I got for today because it's still better than
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nothing and then finally give yourself some Grace like last night I ended up so exhausted that I
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told my partner and my kid I need a little bit of alone time I went in the bedroom put on my pajamas I washed my
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face I got into bed and I meditated for a full hour and I fell asleep and it was awesome so sometimes you just have to
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give yourself a little bit of Grace and say you know what I I clearly need to rest that's
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okay it's okay self-care is okay so if you have to skip a workout if you have
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to go out to dinner and get the healthiest thing you can find on the menu again I really recommend already
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having that set in stone as your places that you can go but if you have to do that just just
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give yourself some Grace cuz we're all human and as long as you're doing the best that you can do it's better than
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nothing so if you're finding that you are just far too wiped out too exhausted
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too lethargic your your brain is tired your body is tired whatever it is and you can't stay on plan that's okay you
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can make a plan you can with so making a plan would
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be a Crock-Pot meal or meal prepping or going online and finding a couple of
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healthy meals that you can get at your favorite restaurants so you don't show
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up and have something unhealthy because you already know well this is what I have to have if we go there it's either that or I have to cook right prioritize
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your plan if mama ain't happy nobody's happy get your workout in cook your healthy
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meal do your your self-care whatever you have to do make it a
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priority just start even if you do a half-ass job some exercise some healthy
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cooking is better than nothing so just start and finally give yourself Grace
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when you can't do it and don't punish yourself you I was human last night I
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could I was too exhausted to work out but that doesn't mean I'm going to say oh I'm just going to wait until
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Monday and if you want more on that listen to my my weight loss hack another episode episode I did last week and
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we'll talk about just keep going so finally I want to get to some
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reader questions and we're doing pretty well here we're at about 40 minutes so Gwen gets a lot of sleep and she
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exercises and eats well so great job Gwen but her autoimmune disorder makes
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her very sleepy so Gwen what I would recommend and not knowing what your autoimmune disorder is is and I don't
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necessarily want to ask ask her that on a social media platform so Gwen if if you have the chance go on Instagram and
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send me a direct message it's just my Instagram handle is Audrey John's and
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I'll dig a little bit deeper for you but I have an autoimmune disease um I have CRPS I'm in remission um but yeah it can
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make you really lethargic and tired and I get that what I have found is that exercise has helped and you're already
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exercising which is really really great the digestion pills really help me a lot
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as well and then eating for my disease helps me as well so having lots of
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antioxidants really helps so I actually take an antioxidant supplement because I do like my supplements but if you don't
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I get it um but you could really pack your diet full of antioxidants as well
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as you know cherries are really great for pain I I do a lot of blueberries I do a lot of berries where I have a kitty
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exci here if you guys are watching on YouTube um so try to eat you know lots
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of um healthy nuts are great with antioxidants um flax seeds are great
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chia seeds are great basically everything I went off of or almost everything that I I noted earlier on the
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healthiest foods to have for energy should help also with an autoimmune
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disease so if you're not already eating for that disease then maybe that's area that you
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can work in um otherwise send me a message on Instagram because I I don't
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want to ask you to post your whole life story unless you want to on Facebook but thank you
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Gwen Tia has a hard time with fatigue after a long day I bet a lot of us can
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relate after running around all day with her kids it's often hard to make a healthy dinner for the family so Tia
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what I would recommend is plan for it as as I ad mentioned so either you've got
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something in the crock pot or you make doubles of dinner every night that you
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can you feel like you do have the energy to cook double it up and just package up
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those leftovers and put them in meal prep containers and put them in the freezer and that will make it so that
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you can say all right guys we have leftover lasagna we have leftover casserole we have leftover this
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this and this who wants what so that works as well um also as I noted when you make a
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plan it could also be okay my kids really love to go out to eat on X night
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of the week if you can afford it find a spot that they love to go to and go on the website when you're not
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hungry and look up at least two healthy meals so I really recommend Tia to find
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stuff that will work for you so that you have that backup plan right and you know
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make it a priority if you have to batch cook on the weekends and batch cooking is just cooking large quantities of your
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protein so you can easily add it to different things that's a great way of doing it meal prepping is great like I
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said I don't I'm not great at meal prepping all in one day I'm great at making a really big
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quantity of food for dinner tonight or lunch today or breakfast this morning
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and then packaging up the leftovers so that could be a great way of doing it as well so I hope this has been really
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helpful to all of you I'm Sorry Miss Kitty has been bad she clearly wants to
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be a podcaster as well but before we go I just want to quickly run down the best foods for energy is again is going to be
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fresh fruits and vegetables lean proteins whole grains water nuts and
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seeds bananas oatmeal meal and chia seeds are the best foods to help boost
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your energy and then I want to remind you that when you're wiped out four things that you can do is one
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make a plan that means meal prepping batch cooking finding your favorite restaurant and finding the healthy meals
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on there ahead of time two prioritize your plan so you're either working out
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earlier or you are meal prepping know that hit the last one as well but prior
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prioritizing your plan making it the most important thing that you're going to be doing that day just start go to
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the gym and do a half-ass job that's okay too and finally give yourself Grace
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because it isn't always going to happen and if you mess up it is an
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opportunity to learn to give yourself Grace to practice
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self-care to practice self-love if you skip a workout if you miss eating
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healthy one day if you end up Tia if you end up going through the McDonald's drive-thru that's okay babe I'm not
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encouraging you to do it but if it happens don't say all right the whole week is ruined I'm going to start again
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on Monday this is part of the journey and You' got to give yourself Grace and you
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have to just say you know what it's okay tomorrow will be different the next meal
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will be better never punish yourself never work out twice as hard the next day never skip a meal just give yourself
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Grace and know that this is part of the journey I hope you've loved the lose
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watching I hope this has been helpful it's been helpful for me so we'll see if
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I can practice what I preach throughout this week please try to get some self-care in as well because if you're
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listening to this podcast and you're exhausted then you could probably use a
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little bit of self-care and self-love so if you need that permission from someone you're getting it from me okay thanks
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again for listening to the lose weight by eating podcast until next week I'll chat with you soon